there needs to be an easier way to convey the idea of “it’s absolutely fine that you don’t like this thing I like, and I don’t even necessarily disagree with your reasons for disliking it, but I am sick to death of hearing your negative opinions about it.”
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eldest daughter syndrome and gifted kid syndrome are some great examples of phrases used to talk about specific kinds of trauma that the internet has taken and turned into “boo hoo these people arent special anymore so theyre lashing out!!” it was never about that you fucking cunts
eldest daughter sydrome is about a very specific trauma that comes with being expected to parent for younger siblings and even your parents as a literal child and how badly it fucks you and your perception of yourself and what you’re capable of doing up. gifted kid syndrome is about how a “smart” label is slapped onto kids at a horribly young age and then they are repeatedly denied help forced to do more and more work never taught socialization or study skills and then berated and treated like a disappointment when they’re human beings instead of little intelligence machines. god.
i was fucking right about this honestly. most phrases like this are about certain kinds of trauma people have faced not about some kind of fucking superiority complex
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One advantage of not really having a strong sense of gender identity is that you’re very [shrug emoji] about how people gender you. Sometimes people call me by she/her pronouns and sometimes they go with he/him pronouns and on the internet people often default to they/them, and neither option is entirely right but also, fuck if I know what would be right, and I don’t particularly care. Therefore I’m perfectly happy to outsource my gender identity to the people around me who actually need to figure out which box to put me in. I don’t need to talk about myself in third person, so really my pronouns sound like a you problem.
My pronouns are I/me and the rest is for someone else to deal with because I have better things to do.
Very fond of macrolabels, like “queer”, that provide zero extra information. Is it genderqueer? Is it romantic/sexual orientation queer? Is it queer as in “none of your fucking business what’s in my pants and what I do with it and with whom”?
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Some of my favorite Thranduil hair gifs. These wig makers are so talented and they definitely gave him the most beautiful one.
‘‘Teenagers are annoying’‘ so true but do you remember what being a teenager was like???? They can be as annoying as they want, god knows they need it
Remember when you literally had no agency in your life? Yeah :/
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self-care is spending 90% of your day absorbed in fictional worlds/characters to avoid thinking about or engaging with your very real problems
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Only Murders in the Building (2021-present)
To Protect and Serve (S01E06)
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Do they treat you well?
#lol whatever #should we talk about her charity to her awful family #or kit’s natural kindness - how unusual to display that in a male lead! #or ella’s apparent shock at being treated with the same courtesy she gives to others #or kit’s logic hand in hand with his sympathy - Ella it really isn’t your fault! #I’ve always loved when her voice gets slower and softer when she says ‘we must simply…mustn’t we’ #because she needed to hear herself say it out loud to someone else #she had to reconvince herself of what she believed in #there’s almost mutual disorientation in this scene #they collide and are so stunned in the immediate kinship that they blurt out truth (via @byjoveimbeinghumble)
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This is the most effective book advertisement i think ive ever seen
1. The look on the author’s face
2. The hilarious plot framing
3. Dumpling earrings
4. The look on the author’s face
if “pacific rim meets the handmaid’s tale” didn’t sell you on this book i hope this does
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